Podcast Episode 169: When Siblings Attack – Stopping The Rivalry (Rebroadcast)

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Can you think back on your own childhood and come up with some crazy sibling-fight stories? I’ve heard some doozies, people being hung out windows or tied to trees by their siblings, the time a brother put green dye in a sister’s hair – so the sister retaliated by pouring glitter into the brother’s bed!

Siblings can hurt each other in lots of big and small ways; sometimes it feels like there’s no good intervention.

Today, I share about a book that I first read while pregnant with my second: Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. This book is the second of The Fabulous Five, five books which will transform your relationship with your children, so get reading them ASAP (here’s the blog post detailing the Fab Five)!

It made the list because, quite simply, if you have more than one child – or if you grew up in a family where you had at least one sibling – you will finally understand how to help when siblings fight.

Today, we talk about the ups and downs of brothers and sisters, both in our families growing up and in our homes as parents. Go to weturnedoutokay.com/169 for show notes and key links!

Listen for how to:
– make peace with childhood hurts of our own, in order to be better at handling sibling rivalry with our kids
– be fair without being equal
– handle when an older child says “can we give the baby back?”

Your one takeaway from today: it is possible to alleviate sibling rivalry! You don’t have to live with fighting, jealousy, the mean tricks that siblings play on each other… Siblings Without Rivalry will help you fix it.

Key Links:

Here is the We Turned Out Okay Fabulous Five list of books to help in your parenting!

Click here to check out Siblings Without Rivalry.

Feeling all alone in your parenting? Find out about the Ninja Parenting Community, where I personally help parents through the struggles that young children bring. Click here to learn more!

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