What is possible? Coronavirus update 5

In today’s video I talk about a few things:
– the daily check-in call a friend and I have established, in which we trade inspirational calendar/book entries
– the idea that, even in a frightening and worrisome time like we are having now, many things can and will go right
– a wonderful Smart Passive Income podcast episode, “What to do when you are laid off,” in which Pat asks the question “What is possible?”
– My upcoming interview for the April 2020 OkayCon Virtual Summit with Andy Murphy, author of The Secure Dad and an expert in home and family safety and security

I combine all these ideas into one overarching thought:

Good things are possible right now, too.

What’s good in your life right now? How are you staying positive? Let me know!

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We will get through this together <3
Karen Lock Kolp, M.Ed. of https://weturnedoutokay.com
Helping parents change kids’ behavior from bad to good, feel happy inside, and TRULY enjoy family time : )

323: 32 Ways to occupy stuck-at-home kids (organized by amount of adult input!)

During a recent call that takes place each week in my online coaching practice, many members expressed frustration with all the lists of activities coming at us, because they’re often frustratingly disorganized.

So I wanted to give everyone a list, organized by how much time/input is required by us parents!



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Here are the 32 ways to occupy your kiddo, organized by amount of adult input:

A few caveats, this will definitely depend on a child’s age. A two-year-old will not be able to be as independent in making yarn dolls, for example, as seven or eight-year-old would be. But hopefully there’s something in here for everyone!

1. Minimum adult input activities: Continue reading “323: 32 Ways to occupy stuck-at-home kids (organized by amount of adult input!)”

“How do I handle weeks and possibly months of this?” – Coronavirus Update 4

“How do we get through weeks or potentially months like this?”
We talked about looking at what is right in front of us instead of trying to know the future (this is something that I need to keep in mind, as well as anybody, so very helpful part of our talk : )
We discussed mindfulness, and I shared this app from the VA.

“I feel guilty, and overwhelmed, trying to work while leaving my young child to his own devices. What can be done about this?”
I also gave us all permission to not feel guilty.
We are doing the best that we can, and the more guilt we feel, the less we can do our best.

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And many hugs for you as we come through this! We will get through it. And we will get through it together <3

A Sense of Control: Coronavirus update 3

In today’s video I share how to help our children have a sense of control, and also how to help ourselves have a sense of control, in these crazy times that we are now living in.

NPC members: I have created an entire forum, Coronavirus Resources, where I’m placing videos like these and other good information, and where I’m hoping you’ll post your questions and your good information to! Click here to visit this forum. (Please note, you must be logged in to access our forums; click here to watch a quick video on how to do this : )

In this video I reference:
Ned Johnson’s amazing article, “Help enhance kids’ sense of control amid coronavirus concerns
The awesome website washyourlyrics.com, where you can set handwashing to any song! No more Happy Birthday! (Unless you love Happy Birthday… But I bet you’re a little tired of it by now : )
The very first podcast episode in this stream, https://weturnedoutokay.com/000, in which myself and my four best friends share about our unplanned adventures. Might make very good listening right now, as we are globally on an unplanned adventure.
Finally I share the March 16 inspirational calendar quote, one that means a lot to me, especially right now:
“Live your life by a compass not a clock”
I hope this video is helpful!

PS I am changing up the programming for We Turned Out Okay, to reflect more of what you need during this coronavirus outbreak. So, what do you need?

What questions have you got that I can help with, as a child development expert, while you navigate all the stuff coming at you?
You can email me by going to https://weturnedoutokay.com/contact, and I hope you do!
Better yet, go to https://weturnedoutokay.com/weekly to sign up for my newsletters… You’ll get these videos automagically sent right to your inbox, and I write back to each and every one of you who writes to me.

Hugs to you as we go through this time!

322 Coronavirus anxiety, and How to regulate screen time (new ninja tactic!)

So, I say I’m going to drop an F bomb in the beginning segment of this episode, but we decided to edit it out, so no worries about earmuffs 🙂

Re coronavirus: I had an anxiety attack this morning, before I was even fully awake. To help you in case you are experiencing heightened anxiety right now as well, I start off today’s show with audio from a video series I’m doing on how to feel better during this time of fear, worry, and coronavirus threats.

The video has its own post, with a cheat sheet of the ways I’m finding to alleviate the anxieties, available at https://weturnedoutokay.com/cv2

Go to https://weturnedoutokay.com/weekly to get these videos automagically delivered right into your inbox. We will get through this together 💕

Re the new ninja tactic:

I am SO excited to share this with you, a new ninja tactic that is absolutely great for regulating screen time!
Do you struggle with getting your kids to stop watching TV, or the tablet, or stop using your (or their) phone?
This is the show for you. I lay out exactly what words to say, to make this work – to get your kids to listen to you and actually control the screen time!
Join us : )

Here is the link to this post

Links that come up in this episode:
weturnedoutokay.com/weekly, where you can sign up for the newsletters I send out each week! They are extremely useful, like this one about what to do when your child is disrespectful, and plus I love corresponding with you!

The original post by our NPC member, who first brought this ninja tactic to my attention

creatingchampionsforlife.com, the place our NPC member first learned of this tactic

– Bonnie and Thomas’s video, outlining the tactic

Positive Discipline Ninja Tactics, my first book, which contains lots more tools you can use in the stressful moments of parenting to get your kids to do what you want them to do : )

weturnedoutokay.com/joinnpc, where you can become a member of the Ninja Parenting Community (just as this member did) and learn to overcome the challenges that are stopping you from truly enjoy family time

Today’s episode is sponsored by the amazing Janine Halloran, expert in teaching kids coping skills, who has created a great resource to help your child handle it when the going gets tough!
Listen to today’s show to find out how to get 15% off your order, and then
Click copingskillsforkids.com/okay to check out Janine’s Coping Skills for Kids Cue Card Decks.

Thanks for reading, and listening!

Anxiety, sickness in the time of coronavirus, and my family: update one


In this video I share what’s going on in my family (as one of my sons and I travel, and he gets sick), my own fears about and anxieties around coronavirus and all of the economic and social havoc it’s wreaking – and most importantly what steps I’m taking to address those fears.

I am sharing because I hope the steps I’m taking will be helpful for you too!


This one takes you to the video and podcast episode I did recently on “14 things you can do to address coronavirus with your family”:


And this one takes you to kids and media specialist Devorah Heitner‘s article on how to survive with kids home from school for an extended period of time:

https://www. raisingdigitalnatives.com/kids-home-from-school-how-to-survive

I plan to be back in here with another update for you in a couple days. Hope this helps! And thanks for watching 💕

Cheers, Karen