Podcast 025: YCE – Understanding What’s Going On In Your Kid’s Head

Your Child Explained: where we talk about what is going on inside your kid’s head! YCE episodes drop every other Thursday, always the same week as selected as last a guest interview episode. Sometimes a YCE episode will also be a Q&A, so if you’re child is doing something that is driving you nuts, please ask me about it – just go to weturnedoutokay.com/contact – but most often the YCE will be on the same topic the previous Tuesday’s guest episode.

Let’s dive into your kid’s head together!

Tuesday’s guest, Wesley Chapman of A HUMAN Project, gave you and I lots of ways to help our young children feel loved, appreciated, and an integral part of our families. If you didn’t get a chance to listen to our interview, I think you’ll love it – it’s Weturnedoutokay.com/024… The obstacles that Wes has overcome and the positive difference he’s making and the lives of thousands of families will blow you away.

For today’s Your Child Explained episode, we highlight the letter you in HUMAN: to Wes, U means Understanding. Today’s show, as we look into our young kids’ minds, we see a desperate need on their parts to be understood by the people they love most.

How do you communicate that you honor their ideas, that you “get” your child, no matter how young? Maybe it’s as simple as saying “I understand” sometimes; maybe it’s slightly tweaking your routine to honor your toddler’s preferences.

The best thing is that putting the letter u in Understanding can have great consequences! They can help you know your child better, it can help you laugh together… It can help you have more fun.

Do you Understand your child? If so, please share! Go to the contact page at Weturnedoutokay.com, or comment right here in this post – it took me years to be able to Understand each of my boys, I’d love to know how you do it. And, thanks for listening!

Podcast 024: What Kids Need to Thrive with Wes Chapman of A HUMAN Project

A look into the mind of today's guest.
A look into the mind of today’s guest.

Today’s guest has had a lifetime of unplanned adventures… Abused and abandoned during his young childhood, simultaneously a troublemaker and a bullied kid all through school… Wesley Chapman developed an entrepreneurial spirit at age 8, when his grandmother became disabled and he started going door to door selling flowers from her garden.

The entrepreneurial spirit stuck with Wes, who found that his strength lay in being an entrepreneur, and then helping other entrepreneurs… And in more recent years helping thousands of children and teens through their own private battles.

We talk about all that in today’s episode:

  • how Wes’s growing up helped him become the man he is today
  • how his philosophy went from “I’ll prove them all wrong” to “I’ll prove myself right”… And how this philosophical shift affects Wes and the people around him every day
  • what the acronym HUMAN means, in Wes’s A HUMAN Project click update
  • how you can help your young child thrive

If you take just one thing from this episode, I hope it is this: our children deserve our time and our positive thinking. These two elements are what will cause them to thrive!